Ukoliko na društvenim mrežama podelite nešto što mnogima nije po volji, očekujte da ćete biti javno linčovani. Salve uvreda i brdo negativnih komentara su nešto što je pratilo svakog ko je na mrežama postavio nešto što drugi ne odobravaju. Ipak, to nije bio slučaj sa Mel Vots, koja je odlučila da pokaže kako žena stvarno izgleda nakon porođaja.

Ona je sa svom Instagramu postavila fotografiju svog stomaka nakon porođaja carskim rezom i umesto pogrdnih komentara, Mel je dobila na hiljade komentara podrške.

 

? Top photo 30 weeks pregnant Bottom photo 4 days post Caesarean section. Wow. Honestly it's no castle or bloody piece of art. Sure it's filled with stretch marks and dimples. But this body, this one the one I own gave me another life. Another small human to love and to hold. It held onto him for 9 months and sheltered him, protected him and prepared him for the day he was born. So many times I've doubted my body, so many times I've pinched and pulled at sections that I didn't like. In reality this body has done everything I'd ever want it to do. Sure it's not magazine or swimsuit worthy to some. But to me and my husband, it's the place that grew our babies. It's the place that everything we love most started. And that's all that counts right?! We feel as though we need to follow society's stigma on what we should look like when in fact we should just do what we feel works for us. No body has the same body And every body has their own body. Enjoy it.

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Mlada mama želela je samo da pošalje poruku da svaka žena treba da voli svoje telo bez obzira da li na njemu ima ožiljaka ili ne, a u tome su je podržale i sve druge mame ovog sveta.

"Bravo, mi žene treba da volimo sebe", napisala je Ketrin.

 

I wasn't going to share this with you all just yet. As I'm still processing it all. But I wanted to let you know that's it okay if you're not okay. Today I walked out of Kmart mid anxiety attack looking for a bathroom and hoping to god this isn't happening to me again. The reality is, it is. And even though I'm disappointed in myself and I feel as though all the things I worked so hard for last year have come undone. I know what it felt like to be okay after my last bout of post natal anxiety. This time I'm on top of it and I'm off to get help before it becomes my life again. I tired so hard to push myself through it and I'm exhausted. I need sleep. However, I'm okay. And I will be okay. This is just one of those things that can happen and unfortunately for me it's hit me quickly. Recognising and acknowledging it is far more than what I've done in the past. I told Nolan how I felt and he asked me if I should call Martin - the psychologist I was seeing. So we came home and that's what I did booked myself in for my first appointment for Friday. The reason I'm telling you this is because even though my photos, my posts and even my snaps all seem pretty normal you actually have no idea what's going on in someone's head. Meaning there are millions of people out there who'll do anything to bring you down or someone around you. Be the person that asks the simple questions or be the person that stands up for someone. As you have no idea what's going on in someone else's world. And know it's okay not to be okay, as long you get the help you need! It doesn't work straight away but I promise it helps.

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"Ja sam se tri puta porodila prirodno i dva puta sam išla na carski rez. Nikad nisam žalila što nikad više nisam izgledala isto. Danas sam i baka, ovo je predivno, hvala ti Mel", napisala je jedna žena na Instagramu.